your_angel_4ever13 asked:


My sister( who is 16) and I(I am 14) didn’t grow up too well together when we were kids. She always stole my things& then I would find them in her bag your in her drawers. She was a anger problem(It’s not too big, but she does have an anger issue.)

A few weeks ago, I played a small joke. Nothing to get mad about but she DOES!! I just told my little sister to put regular sink water into her glass of water( I was joking and didn’t know she went to go do that.).

A few days later my mp3(It cost almost 200 hundred dollars) it was gone after she went into my brother’s room. My little sister was in there at the time and did tell me she saw my sister(16 year old) go in there.

After she went up there, I went to go grab my mp3, but it was gone. I’ve looked everyone and my parents just don’t see here like I do. If you read back to when were kids, I always suspected that she took my things. So when something of mine is gone, I ALWAYS suspect her now. It’s just become something I do.

Just a few days ago, she had lost her school planner. Right after she goes downstairs for a LOOOONG time, I go grab my stuff(my glasses and books), but then my glasses are not in the case. How can they be gone when it’s in my bad and in the hard case? Now I suspect her, agian!

How can I confront her? I can’t…maybe it’s because I”M A WIMP or it’s because of her anger issue. She’ll get all pissed and start cussing and maybe hit me or something.

My family never saw her like I saw her.

Please give me advice.

Kiana M asked:


every single day i come home watch my 2 younger sisters, cook dinner, and try to clean after my homework is done because my mom works late as a party planner. when she finally gets home i always like to ask her how her day was or if she can help me with homework or something. but her excuse is that she’s tired,or she just starts yelling that the house is not clean enough i didnt do this, i didnt do that. so much crap.
i think im a pretty good kid with good grades and i never do anything bad. also whenever i want to hang with my friends she never lets me go even when i have spent the whole school week taking care f the house. i dont think its fair that i have to take care of the “at home” responsibilities when she gets payed to go hang out with her friends at parties.
i dont know what to do so that she can start acknowledging my work instead of my flaws.
oh yeah one of my younger sisters has special needs so she tries to keep me in the house so i can help watch her.

Musiclover:) asked:


its not for 4 years yet but imm planning it, (im love planning partys, im going to be a wedding planner one day ) anyway i have been to 2 18th birtday partys and both were tacky and had way to many family members there, my brothers 18th was horrible, he had to have my auntie my uncle, there 15 year old son and there 6 year old son, my nana, my grandad, me, my brother, and my mum and dad, my other auntie and my other uncle, it was embarrassing, i genrally don’t like my extended family. apart from my nana and grandad. but when its my 18th i want to just get pissed with my friends and my nana will just have a go at me for getting hammerd or worse get hammerd and start dancing with me. at my party i can sort of stand my mum and dad there, my older couisn who will be 19 then, my other older cousin who will be 22 my two brother who will be 24 and 22! but no one else, the thing is my family will be so offended if i didn’t invite them. what should i do i really don’t want my younger cousins there, my weird fat uncle and my grumpy aunt or my nasty uncle who is just a bitch to me, but if i invite one aunt who i like the others will be really mad!!!!!!

someadvice asked:


I have been going with this girl for a little over a year now. She stays over when she can sometimes for a week at a time. Not to long ago I was home and she went to the beach with her friends and I notice her daily planner was out and I notice that she had put down my name on a day that we had been upset with each other nothing big and there was a frown face on that day. So me being the curious guy I am I started to look through. Over this past holiday we got into an argument about seeing her family and basically we didnt see each other for christmas nor New Years. This went on till the middle of January and we patched things up. So back to what I found. Well I got as far back to Jan 1st. Well She wrote in her planner that she went to this kids house ( Brian ). Didn’t think too much of it, probably just a place for her to celebrate or something. Well as I looked on it seemed that every friday she would go and hang with this kid and on one of the days she actually wrote that they watched a movie together . by the way smiley faces drawn in on these dates as well. must of been a good time. So not too long ago I confronted her about it and she said that it was a kid she went to school with and reunited at her class reunion. Well then I asked her about this movie date with him. Here I think they went to the movies she said they watched a movie at his house just the two of them. Well what the F am I suppose to think now. She swears up and down that nothing happen and she doesn’t talk to this kid anymore because he told her he had feelings for her and she had me. I don’t know what to think. I have a million thoughts going through my mind about what really happen between them. Through out that whole fight we were in I never once strayed to another girl. This is hard for me cause I was a player prior to her and really didn’t care about how women felt until I met her. I figured Im getting older and I cant play around like I was 18 yrs old anymore so I for the one time in my life can say I never cheated on her. I feel that this is all coming back to haunt me. I don’t know what to do? She is a good girl but I don’t think I could ever trust her anymore. I mean come on now who would go watch a movie with someone else and it be just the two of them and it be a friendly thing. I need some feedback any would help

P A asked:


sorry its so long. I am in a school club, I am the treasurer and my twin brother is a chairman. He is about 1 in 6. I keep track of the money which is my job. We have a speaking event and apparently the president didn’t get ready so my brother informed the group of what we needed to do which I pubically supported him on. He wanted to send out another e-mail a day later which was outstepping his boundaries. I told him not to and we argued about it for 15 mins. He wouldn’t listen to me. Then today we got into a screaming match because he thinks I failed when event planner is NOT my job. I am so busy and don’t have time to call the president and say what do I need to do, he needs to call me. My brother thinks this is my fault because I am on the top four when in reality my job is to keep track of the money. Thats is why our club constitution delegates responsibility instead of us always intrepeting it. We got into a huge screaming match and my dad refused to hear what happened and blamed both of us when I was trying to explain to jimmy its not my responsibility to event plan and its over stepping my boundaries. My mom didn’t stand up forme and my brother didn’t actually state what he believed beacuse he knew my dad would tell him he was wrong. Now were all in a huge feud over this stupid club. My dad won’t listen to me and expalin to my brother why I didn’t get involved. Now I am in trouble too when I never even started this whole mess. What can I do. He refuses to hear about it and everyone refuses to hear my side of the story even though I should be able to explain the whole conflict not just what they heard.. I have tennis for 2.5 hours after school everyday and 2-3 hours of homework, I can’t be dealing with this now… What should I do?????

ashely asked:


Im 19 and married my sister is 22 and recently got engaged i cut my hair short not even 3 hours later she goes and makes a hair appointment to do the same I was blonde and went dark and not even a day later shes dark headed from being a blonde i am taking classes to be a wedding planner now she is doing the sammeee thing i buy clothes she goes out and buys the same ones ! anddd she even buys her fiance the same things i buy my husbands it wouldnt be bad if she wasnt 22 years old its so annoying! what do i do
do yall honestly think its ok for a 22 yearold to not want to be there own person and have to copy there little sister?? umm no

Hannah asked:


She is 19 and is very immuture but she’s got my parent thinking she is a perfect angel. She thinks she’s so beatiful and smart even though she’s very weird and is sometimes a social outcast. She makes our parents help her with her school work and she’s totaly depended on my parents skills and money. My dad even wrote her college essay’s and her high school essay’s.

She is always putting me down and making me get in trouble wiht ym parents, by saying lies about me or being a tattel tale to my parents. she lies and says i lie. she steals and says i steal. she always swears at me in front of my parents and gets away with it.

she got angrey and broke my door. my parents said it was my fault cos i “provoked her” she broke my closet door because she thought i stole her top from her and i refused to let her open my closet door (she found out her shirt was in the wash) and my parents said it was my fault.

she insults me and goes in my room and wakes me up at night, when i have school the next day. she reads my stuff, like my text messeges and my school books and planner.

this person in 19. she says i have no life. but i have loads of friends who love me and she doesnt. she broke my door and my parents refuse to fix it, she broke my closet, she refuses to fix it, she steals my stuff. she makes up crap about me. and my parents blames it on me.

it really pisses me off. but now i think it’s time to do something. is it just be or is my sister a big fat biatch?!

DustinH asked:


My Step Mother is starting to have problems with my little sister Emily regarding her behavior. Emily is almost eleven and is in fifth grade. Prior to this grade Emily loved school, performed well, was organized (wrote all assignments in her planner and kept binders organized) and took an active interest in many after school activities such as gymnastics and dance.

As of her fifth grade year, Emily began having problems with a little girl in her class named Micah. Some of the problems were that when Emily was in gym class Micah got really angry at her for not choosing to be Micah’s partner even though Emily was asked to be another girl’s partner first. Micah is just kind of rude to Emily and rolls her eyes at her for things. This behavior makes Emily feel that she’s done something wrong to hurt Micah’s feelings and apologizes to Micah even though she has done nothing wrong.

This problem has made Emily afraid to go to school when she used to love it. She says to my step mom every morning that she has stomach cramps and is sick so that she won’t have to go to school. It’s making my step mom have to struggle to get Emily to go to school every morning. (Emily’s school is very small and she is unable to transfer to another fifth grade class because in her school, there is only one fifth grade class).

Other problems began happening as well. In addition to Emily being afraid of school, she has also not been able to stay focused enough to do her homework. For example, my step mom told Emily in the morning not to stay for chorus after school that day because she has other stuff to do. But Emily chose not to listen (or didn’t hear her) and stayed for chorus anyway. Emily wasn’t able to complete her homework on time and had to do more in the morning which she argued about. On the ride to school Emily had some religion work to do but she spent most of the ride staring out the window. She never used to have trouble focusing.

Emily has also developed a fear of things such as clothing because she thinks that because one time she wears a certain shirt and has a bad day, it’s because the shirt is bad luck so she won’t wear it.

As for organization, Emily claims that a voice in her head (she said she doesn’t actually hear a real voice but I guess it’s just her conscience) says that she shouldn’t write in her planner or put papers away correctly when she never had a problem with this before.

My step mom feels like Emily has completely changed from how she was before this year. I feel that she might need a counselor but we’re having a hard time finding one. I think it may also be hormones but I’m not sure.

Sorry to write such a long letter but if anyone could find some solutions to what to do to help her and my step mom because it’s really really stressful for her. Thanks

vanillacokefiend asked:


mmmmkay so heres my problem. Im 15 and im a sophmore. As of last week my parents have been structuring me like crazy. Im not just talking about school work, but that is the main thing. I have to show them my planner and my homework everyday and even though we have an A-Day B-Day schedule in school, I have to do my homework the night its assigned. Also i have to organize my books every weekend. They have set bedtimes and have given me “the privilige” of reading for thirty minutes before i go to bed. I always used to listen to my mp3 player to help me to go to sleep and they were always ok with that until recently. Also I have been wearing earplugs to sleep because my puppy barks in the middle of the night but i cant do that now either. I know they are trying to help and they are real good parents but recently all i have been getting are weird rules and stupid looks. They were never this into everything I do but now they all of a sudden are in every part of everything I do. Please help!
thanks, guys, your helping, you really are. Someone pointed out that i might be leaving something out. Yes I am, and I wanted to put it in the regular details section but i couldnt fit it in there. So last year, i did kinda bring home bad grades, but only in algebra and occasionally in french. But both teachers were kind of lacking help if you know what im saying. But at the end of the year i brought up my grades BY MYSELF. So I dont understand their thinking. Plus, last year I was just, you know, figuring out the school and what its like to be in high school. I dont know if that holds anything but its the honest truth. Also my dad has been talking to me about how i have to bring my grades up when I havent done anything to make my grades bad this early in the year.

luvnlife85 asked:


My sister-in-law and her family had been living with us for 3 months when it was supposed to be 2 weeks. Tensions grew and grew about various things. They helped out with food with their food stamps but that was it. About 3 weeks ago she stoped contributing to the household. (cleaning and buying food) I went home to make a sandwhich one day and she ripped the meat out of my hand and said i couldnt use it because it was for her husbands lunches. I told her that she couldnt live there for free and we had to eat to. We called eachother names and pushed eachother. I found out that the reason she was so angry was because she found my planner that I keep my bills in that had a day marked “kick them out” I am considering writing her a letter telling her all the reasons I was mad and apologizing for the “kick them out” thing but she shouldnt have been snooping in the first place. She is family we have to resolve this somehow. (I kicked her out during that argument they are now gone)