i don’t want family at my 18th birthday party?
Musiclover:) asked:
its not for 4 years yet but imm planning it, (im love planning partys, im going to be a wedding planner one day
) anyway i have been to 2 18th birtday partys and both were tacky and had way to many family members there, my brothers 18th was horrible, he had to have my auntie my uncle, there 15 year old son and there 6 year old son, my nana, my grandad, me, my brother, and my mum and dad, my other auntie and my other uncle, it was embarrassing, i genrally don’t like my extended family. apart from my nana and grandad. but when its my 18th i want to just get pissed with my friends and my nana will just have a go at me for getting hammerd or worse get hammerd and start dancing with me. at my party i can sort of stand my mum and dad there, my older couisn who will be 19 then, my other older cousin who will be 22 my two brother who will be 24 and 22! but no one else, the thing is my family will be so offended if i didn’t invite them. what should i do i really don’t want my younger cousins there, my weird fat uncle and my grumpy aunt or my nasty uncle who is just a bitch to me, but if i invite one aunt who i like the others will be really mad!!!!!!
its not for 4 years yet but imm planning it, (im love planning partys, im going to be a wedding planner one day
) anyway i have been to 2 18th birtday partys and both were tacky and had way to many family members there, my brothers 18th was horrible, he had to have my auntie my uncle, there 15 year old son and there 6 year old son, my nana, my grandad, me, my brother, and my mum and dad, my other auntie and my other uncle, it was embarrassing, i genrally don’t like my extended family. apart from my nana and grandad. but when its my 18th i want to just get pissed with my friends and my nana will just have a go at me for getting hammerd or worse get hammerd and start dancing with me. at my party i can sort of stand my mum and dad there, my older couisn who will be 19 then, my other older cousin who will be 22 my two brother who will be 24 and 22! but no one else, the thing is my family will be so offended if i didn’t invite them. what should i do i really don’t want my younger cousins there, my weird fat uncle and my grumpy aunt or my nasty uncle who is just a bitch to me, but if i invite one aunt who i like the others will be really mad!!!!!!Possibly Related Posts:
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It’s very common for people to have separate celebrations with family and friends. Give that a try. Greggo
Why don`t you let your family throw a party for you and invite your relatives some time after the party you are going to throw for yourself and your friends that takes place somewhere else. It is rude to get pissed in front of the people who love you and watched you grow into the adult you will become. That is not what will make them proud of you. You do want their gifts, don`t you? Blessed
Just ask your parents if you ca do a small family thing for your birthday…like a dinner or whatever some week night…and then have something just for your friends on the weekend! They’ll understand!
Maggie May
Besides, you got 4 freaking years! You got PLENTY of time to plant the idea in your familie’s head.
WELL THIER YOUR FAMILY AND EVEN THOU THIER NOT THE BEST FAMILY TO YOU THIER STILL YOUR FAMILY. AND TEY WANT TO BE A PART OF YOUR 18TH PARTY AND TALK TO YOUR FAMILY ABOUT IT. LuvleyWishez
in my family we go out to dinner as a fam and have a family party and then later we can have a party and during that party my parents don’t let any of the family members in the party. what you could do is on your b-day have a family party and then have a seperate party with friends that is what we do and it works out great. just tell your fam. thats how you would like to celebrate your birthday and they should understand. if you do it this way your fam wont feel too much like you are kicking them to the curb and you can have the party you wanted answer_girl101
talk to them awommack