should I walk or stay?
someadvice asked:
I have been going with this girl for a little over a year now. She stays over when she can sometimes for a week at a time. Not to long ago I was home and she went to the beach with her friends and I notice her daily planner was out and I notice that she had put down my name on a day that we had been upset with each other nothing big and there was a frown face on that day. So me being the curious guy I am I started to look through. Over this past holiday we got into an argument about seeing her family and basically we didnt see each other for christmas nor New Years. This went on till the middle of January and we patched things up. So back to what I found. Well I got as far back to Jan 1st. Well She wrote in her planner that she went to this kids house ( Brian ). Didn’t think too much of it, probably just a place for her to celebrate or something. Well as I looked on it seemed that every friday she would go and hang with this kid and on one of the days she actually wrote that they watched a movie together . by the way smiley faces drawn in on these dates as well. must of been a good time. So not too long ago I confronted her about it and she said that it was a kid she went to school with and reunited at her class reunion. Well then I asked her about this movie date with him. Here I think they went to the movies she said they watched a movie at his house just the two of them. Well what the F am I suppose to think now. She swears up and down that nothing happen and she doesn’t talk to this kid anymore because he told her he had feelings for her and she had me. I don’t know what to think. I have a million thoughts going through my mind about what really happen between them. Through out that whole fight we were in I never once strayed to another girl. This is hard for me cause I was a player prior to her and really didn’t care about how women felt until I met her. I figured Im getting older and I cant play around like I was 18 yrs old anymore so I for the one time in my life can say I never cheated on her. I feel that this is all coming back to haunt me. I don’t know what to do? She is a good girl but I don’t think I could ever trust her anymore. I mean come on now who would go watch a movie with someone else and it be just the two of them and it be a friendly thing. I need some feedback any would help
I have been going with this girl for a little over a year now. She stays over when she can sometimes for a week at a time. Not to long ago I was home and she went to the beach with her friends and I notice her daily planner was out and I notice that she had put down my name on a day that we had been upset with each other nothing big and there was a frown face on that day. So me being the curious guy I am I started to look through. Over this past holiday we got into an argument about seeing her family and basically we didnt see each other for christmas nor New Years. This went on till the middle of January and we patched things up. So back to what I found. Well I got as far back to Jan 1st. Well She wrote in her planner that she went to this kids house ( Brian ). Didn’t think too much of it, probably just a place for her to celebrate or something. Well as I looked on it seemed that every friday she would go and hang with this kid and on one of the days she actually wrote that they watched a movie together . by the way smiley faces drawn in on these dates as well. must of been a good time. So not too long ago I confronted her about it and she said that it was a kid she went to school with and reunited at her class reunion. Well then I asked her about this movie date with him. Here I think they went to the movies she said they watched a movie at his house just the two of them. Well what the F am I suppose to think now. She swears up and down that nothing happen and she doesn’t talk to this kid anymore because he told her he had feelings for her and she had me. I don’t know what to think. I have a million thoughts going through my mind about what really happen between them. Through out that whole fight we were in I never once strayed to another girl. This is hard for me cause I was a player prior to her and really didn’t care about how women felt until I met her. I figured Im getting older and I cant play around like I was 18 yrs old anymore so I for the one time in my life can say I never cheated on her. I feel that this is all coming back to haunt me. I don’t know what to do? She is a good girl but I don’t think I could ever trust her anymore. I mean come on now who would go watch a movie with someone else and it be just the two of them and it be a friendly thing. I need some feedback any would help
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well some people can just hang out with friends of the opposite sex,but the smiley faces does make it look suspicious. It all comes down to whether you trust her or not maggi r
Walk on over to my place. Gesyka
I think you should way. Walk, but stay close. french hottie
Without trust, your relationship will not work. China Doll 3
you never know with girls. i am one. by my knowledge there is a big chance of her cheating on you.i mean movies? just the two of them… im sorry but you never know, i have the same problem with my boyfriend i was with for almost 3 years i love him so much but the cheat factor is on my mind everyday and you cant really get rid of it, if you got more questions about her, you can ask me! i know a lot Briana G
Maybe your guilt of being a player is catching up to you. She told you she stopped talking to him because he told her he had feelings for her but she loves you. That should be enough. You should trust her. I hope she didn’t cheat because that would suck to find out after but love is a risk you take. If you stopped the way your life was before for this girl then you need to give her a chance. She gave you a chance after the type of relationships you had. Give her a chance. If you really think you can’t trust her then you guys need to take a break because you can’t have a relationship with out trust. My parents started having problems because of things that came up from their pasts. It almost broke them apart until they saw all the beautiful moments they had. All the family trips we took. All the love we had as a family and them as a couple and they decided to wipe the slate clean and start fresh. If you really love this girl give her a chance. That would suck to throw it all away and then find out that you threw away the best girl you ever had. Hope this helps and hope your situation gets better! Victoria G