Kiwi Guy asked:


Ok so i have met the love of my life, She is freakin amazing…..My best friend went to school in the US and told me about her, I trusted my bestys judgment and against all my common sense started a long distance relationship from NZ with her, We are young, But have proved everyone wrong and made this work for 2 years, We have saved like crap to afford the costs of her moving here and we are so excited about getting married! soon, We are on a very tight budget as she has been working towards graduating and i have been in and out of hospital sick for most of this year and no help from our parants and very little support makes this very hard, But we are determined to make this happen, Its sad that everyone thinks we are getting married so she can live here, But if anyone knows, you cant actually stay here just by marriage, you still need to go through all the processes to make it happen, So we were just gonna do it at the registry office, Because we barely have the money for all the Visas and moving costs, But i want to suprise her and give her at least something better than that, I need some ideas though, Some cheap ways in making the day better, Of course i would love to get a celebrant, But that isnt in our budget =(, But until way in the future when i can give her a big white wedding i wanna make this special…..But you know im a Guy and Guys arnt usually the best wedding planners!, So if anyone could spare some opinions and ideas, it would mean a lot!….more than a lot!

Thanks =)

I guess some of you are thinking, Just wait, But if you have been through this and through all the heart ache of not being able to spend time together, you would understand how much this means to us =), I love her…

Ok ranted on too much already…..kinda happens when i talk about her! =P

Zac asked:


Ok so I was really determined to keep up in school this year but i’m already falling behind and i’m trying so hard but I am not turning in my assignments for: Science, Math, History, English. I really am trying so hard but school is becoming really hard for me and I have a school planner but I hate using it and after a really long day at school I like to come home and relax, but I really more than anything want to get A+’s in all my classes. Please help me in any way possible, words of advice , anything. Please don’t give me any crap saying “Here’s an idea, how about do better?” I really really need help. I am already missing 2 math assignments, we were supposed to read chapter 13 of Tom sauywer but i’m only on chapter 3, I have a history packet to turn in I have a science packet and test I need to do, and everything is falling apart! Please help i’m desperate!
Thanks. I feel to embarrased to ask for help because then everyone always looks at me like i’m stupid and i’m afraid the teachers will think i’m incapable of doing anything for myself

Hannah asked:


She is 19 and is very immuture but she’s got my parent thinking she is a perfect angel. She thinks she’s so beatiful and smart even though she’s very weird and is sometimes a social outcast. She makes our parents help her with her school work and she’s totaly depended on my parents skills and money. My dad even wrote her college essay’s and her high school essay’s.

She is always putting me down and making me get in trouble wiht ym parents, by saying lies about me or being a tattel tale to my parents. she lies and says i lie. she steals and says i steal. she always swears at me in front of my parents and gets away with it.

she got angrey and broke my door. my parents said it was my fault cos i “provoked her” she broke my closet door because she thought i stole her top from her and i refused to let her open my closet door (she found out her shirt was in the wash) and my parents said it was my fault.

she insults me and goes in my room and wakes me up at night, when i have school the next day. she reads my stuff, like my text messeges and my school books and planner.

this person in 19. she says i have no life. but i have loads of friends who love me and she doesnt. she broke my door and my parents refuse to fix it, she broke my closet, she refuses to fix it, she steals my stuff. she makes up crap about me. and my parents blames it on me.

it really pisses me off. but now i think it’s time to do something. is it just be or is my sister a big fat biatch?!

Ms Goodie Four-Hands asked:


I’m on day 3 of my diet (yes, it is a diet! i don’t fall for that “live change” crap, I WILL be incorporating some things back into my diet when I lose my weight, ha ha) and miss my Starburst, baked ziti, sausage, fudgesickle… you name it… I’m sad ( I know I’ll be glad I did it in a few weeks (I just have 20lbs to lose). I have used the USDA’s meal planner to make sure I am eating enough foods from each food category. Every day I run 5 miles on the elliptical, and bike for thirty minutes which all totals to be one hour of cardio. Then I do some light weight training.

I’m doing it right…. but I’m only three days in and want to feel like giving up. I feel how I did when I quit smoking… but when I quit smoking I ate a bunch of candy

Help motivate me!

bkkslurpee asked:


I wanna marry my special someone and i want to give her a great wedding because her previous one was crap what does a pretty decent wedding run these days with a band decorator catering wedding planner and etc for 100 people

shewhodoes asked:


each day that goes by I feel more and more overwhelmed, but yet I still don’t do anything to change it? We have nothing booked nothing, picked out, nothing decided on…. we had a reception hall booked, but I cancled it because it was to expensive and I just realized I wanted small and simple. Lost the $500 deposit which sucks big time, but we will save $12,000 by not having the big wedding. Now I am kinda scared to even get involved with another vendor, because I don’t want to lose any more money! I have called some parks in my area and they don’t take reservations until the first of the year, so I am lost on what to do about that? I need to know where this will take place before the first of the year so I can try to get other things started, GRRR I really don’t know what to do? Can you actually find a officiant or anything else when you don’t know where the wedding will even be?? I wanted simple and small because I thought it would be less planning and less stress, but it’s the same, just less money. I also had planned on having 3 BM and MOH, but now that we are changing things I am not sure if that would be right? I had already asked them and they all agreed , should I assume that won’t change even though our wedding went from 150-200 people down to 15- 50 people? I am just so confused and have very little help in the decision making of this whole process. I didn’t know how to plan a big wedding and I really just can’t even figure out how to plan a small wedding or our honeymoon either?? I don’t have the money for a planner, I just have to get my crap together and make some things happen? So that’s what I am asking I guess how the heck do I stop putting things off, beacause they are to difficult to deal with and start doing something?
And before anyone even says it, YES I want to get married that has nothing to do with it, I just don’t like planning things, it’s not my idea of fun!

Maria Felix asked:


I am a great planner, and creative, I can put a party together in just a couple of days. and I can also put up with a lot of crap. hahaha, but seriusly I would love to be a wedding planner.
I do not want to start my own busines. I would like to work for somebody else.